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Drawing up your wedding day timeline need not be stressful! It helps if you keep these three simple factors in mind:
Keep it simple. Don’t over-plan your day. Just as over-planning a vacation can lead to undue stress and a constant need to rush that robs you of your experience, having a wedding timeline that is too tightly packed can often work to hijack your happiness on the otherwise joyous event.
Do it for YOU. Your wedding day really should be about you and your partner. Lay it out in a way that feels most authentic to what feels great to you. Sure, we’ll take time to get some formal family group pictures and yes, that special someone can insist on zipping up the dress. Aside from that, try to not worry too much about trying to appease other people. They’ll have plenty other events to obsess over :)
Air on side of caution. Having extra time is key. Most weddings run a little late. Whether during the getting ready phase or the DJ experiencing technical difficulties setting up speakers for the ceremony to the officiant running late.. there are so many variables and opportunities for delays. Estimating more time than you think might be needed is great, even if that means you have some more time to just relax away from everything before your ceremony. A time to sit, be present.
Timeline guideline for photography
(how long we need for each section)
I tend to work faster than a lot of photographers. Eight years of full time event photography has thought me a lot of valuable lessons! Here is a list of estimated time slots I need for specific parts of the event:
Getting Ready - I usually show up around one hour before you are both ready and fully dressed. I find this gives me ample time to bounce between both partners (if getting ready in one location) and shoot some fun candids + details. Note, I am tactful during this stage, keeping a good sense of when and when not to be in a room. For the brides, I step out of the room when you are actually getting into your dress (and are naked) then I get called back in when all is covered up and dress just has to be zipped/tied and last touches done.
First Look (this is if you two opt to see each other before ceremony) - Usually need about 15 minutes for this. I tend to chose a location that will be more intimate, quiet and private for the couple. I shoot from a distance to give you space to be yourselves, then I follow up with a couple more directed/classic photos. Short and sweet!
Bridal Party Pictures - about 20 minutes, can work with as little as 10 minutes if a smaller (2-6 people) bridal party.
Family Pictures - about 20 minutes. This helps if you keep the family pictures to 10 groupings or less. You’ll have a chance to provide me with a list of groups on the questionnaire you’ll receive about two weeks out from the wedding.
Couple Portraits - I find the magic happens best working with at least 20 minutes and no longer than 40 (minutes), unless it involves more than one location. I have no problem at all walking or driving to more than one location for pictures but you should take account of traffic, parking and access when considering more than one location. I tend to work quickly with couples. I’ve curated this light hearted short and sweet method to best bring fourth genuine moments and tons of personality.
Sunset Photos - 10 minutes. While sunset photos are not a must, it is something that I strongly encourage. A lot of wedding ceremonies and portraits happen during the brighter and hotter part of the day, especially in the summer. Having a quick 10 minute round of pictures starting right at or after the sunset time will allow for some nice warm, muted tones and softer shadows. These can easily be done walking distance of your reception. These are much more about the light quality and less about the location.
Two Sample Timelines
Timeline 1
With NO First Look (meaning the couple does not see each other before ceremony).
In this sample, the ceremony is at 5PM (30 minutes ceremony), but you can easily apply this sample timeline to align with whatever time is ideal for you.
2:30PM - photographer arrives (this means your hair and makeup is done or at very very back end)
3:30PM - dress/suit gets put on. Final touches (veil, boutonniere, jewelry) are done while I take pictures
4PM - pictures with each respective side of bridal party if there is one
Photographer goes to take pictures of ceremony set up and other details
5PM - ceremony
5:30PM - Family pictures. These are best done back at ceremony area once the rest of guests have cleared out to cocktail hour. Your officiant can simply announce for the family members needed for photos to stay in ceremony area while the other guests clear
5:50PM - Pictures of bridal party + couple followed with pictures of just couple
6:30PM - Reception begins, couple enters reception
First dance, toasts etc etc.. Photographer talks to DJ to figure out where to fit 10 minutes of downtime to fit in a quick round of sunset pictures. This can also be formally scheduled into your reception timeline, starting at whatever the predicted sunset time is for that day. Do not worry if this gets pushed back, I can shoot with natural light for up to 30 minutes after sun has fully set.
Timeline 2
With First Look
2:00PM - photographer arrives (this means your hair and makeup is done or at very very back end)
3:00PM - dress/suit gets put on. Final touches (veil, boutonniere, jewelry) are administered
3:30PM - First look with just the couple
4PM - pictures with all the bridal party + couple
If you are doing a first look, then family pictures can be done before your ceremony. If you chose to do family pictures before ceremony, I would suggest scheduling those for 45 minutes before your ceremony.
Photographer goes to take pictures of ceremony set up and other details
5PM - ceremony
5:30PM - Family pictures (unless these are done before ceremony). These are best done back at ceremony area once the rest of guests have cleared out to cocktail hour. Your officiant can simply announce for the family members needed for photos to stay in ceremony area while the other guests clear
5:50PM - Pictures of bridal party + couple followed with pictures of just couple
6:50PM - Reception begins, couple enters reception
First dance, toasts etc etc.. Photographer talks to DJ to figure out where to fit 10 minutes of downtime to fit in a quick round of sunset pictures. This can also be formally scheduled into your reception timeline, starting at whatever the predicted sunset time is for that day. Do not worry if this gets pushed back, I can shoot with natural light for up to 30 minutes after sun has fully set.
Other helpful tips:
Bridal party
Bridal parties can be fun. Nothing like spending some quality time with your closest of friends. I have no problem working with groups as large as 12 people to each side. None at all! But keep in mind that bridal parties can also backfire in ways that are not immediately obvious. Too many people can increase the risk for mistakes (groomsmen forgot his tie, bridesmaid ran really, really late, one got too drunk and the other wants a re-do on the hair). Hotel rooms, houses and airbnbs can feel small when more than 5 people are trying to get ready at once. It also restricts the mobility of the photographer/videographer. Industry professionals tend to prefer bridal parties that are of 3 or less on each side. It has been my personal experience that couples with a small bridal party (or none at all) usually end up enjoying the day a lot more.
Shot/Photo Lists
I am not opposed to these. However, keep in mind that if I have a very extensive photo list from which to check boxes, that it will take me away from doing what I do best : capturing organic, natural moments and emotion. I do have a pretty great sense for special moments and have yet to miss a 1st kiss! Many weddings follow a similar outline, so to provide me with a long list of photographs that I would otherwise very likely capture myself and in a way that is more unobtrusive and less staged, sort of goes against the grain. Again, if you feel more comfortable emailing me such a list, I am just fine with that.
Your Day
It’s yours. Don’t forget to stay present!